
Just Say NO!
What if I told you that your Life Purpose - your highest meaning point, the area of greatest success - was to learn to say NO with grace, kindness and ease?
[For those who wonder where we as Hand Analysts find Life Purpose possibilities - you can pinpoint your Life Purpose in your Finger Prints.]
Really? One Life Purpose possibility is to Just Say No enough? Yes, so that you can be free to joyfully and selflessly serve yourself and others equally. Wait a minute. Serve yourself selflessly. This doesn't make sense does it? If your Soul Agenda is to learn to serve without resentment, obligation, guilt, burnout, anger, codependence .... you get the idea .... then serving yourself/selfcare is a healthy, giving and essential act. Otherwise, you will being saying NO in black letters on an angry hand!
Client story: I have a client whose Life Purpose is to say NO and a subcategory of this is to say no so she can be free to serve and make a difference as a communicator in the spotlight. After 3 sessions with me, she was blocked about "just what is Life Purpose; it seems so foggy to me. I am writer and have some reknown, I know that, but it seems as if something is missing". She admits she if burned out and over obligated and can't say NO enough. (If you look at the list above, she was feeling ALL of it! )
We focused the whole session on how it feels to say no to loved ones and family members especially. She gave me a fabulous story: While on vacation, she was in her doing too much - no time for selfcare and rest dance. Finally, she said no to a close family member who really wanted her to go to an event she had been in charge of organizing. My client said no and stayed in bed with a book. She admitted that she leaped up 2 or 3 times (out of guilt) to dress to go anyway. But she resisted and said it was the best thing she had done for herself in a long time. When the relative returned, the evening was filled excitement; she was thrilled to regale my client with all the stories and my client received them with pleasure vs resentment and obligation.
I said that it is easy as that. If you say NO enough, the rest of your journey will be paved with possibilities and with clarity.
Life Purpose is a conscious awareness. A journey from the unconscious to the conscious. Noticing, asking why and how, wondering, being curious. This is the only way to feed your higher path. If you would like to move to the next level, a good start is knowing what you fingerprints tell you. Visit my website for more on the story.
Consider ordering a LifePrints Report - a 15 - 20 page report on your Soul Agenda including your Life Purpose.
